Jami` at-Tirmidhi #1001

The Book on Jana''iz (Funerals)
Sahih

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ، حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ سَعِيدٍ، عَنْ سُفْيَانَ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي زُبَيْدٌ الأَيَامِيُّ، عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، عَنْ مَسْرُوقٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ ‏ "‏ لَيْسَ مِنَّا مَنْ شَقَّ الْجُيُوبَ وَضَرَبَ الْخُدُودَ وَدَعَا بِدَعْوَةِ الْجَاهِلِيَّةِ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ ‏.‏
The Prophet said: "He who slaps (his) cheeks, tears (his) clothes and calls with the call of the Jahliyyah is not one of us."
Narrated by Abdullah narrated that:

Context

In this hadith, the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ emphasizes the importance of maintaining dignity and composure during times of grief or distress. He condemns actions such as tearing one's clothes and striking one's face, which were common expressions of mourning in pre-Islamic Arabia. The takeaway is that true followers of the Prophet ﷺ should not resort to such behaviors, as they are not in line with Islamic teachings.

Modern Application

Today, this principle encourages individuals to express their grief in a manner that is respectful and dignified. Instead of resorting to extreme displays of emotion, people are encouraged to seek solace in prayer and community support during difficult times.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Community and Prophetic Conduct because it highlights the importance of maintaining dignity in communal expressions of grief and reflects the conduct expected of the Prophet's ﷺ followers.

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This hadith is #1001 from Jami` at-Tirmidhi, in the Book of The Book on Jana''iz (Funerals). It is graded Sahih and narrated by Abdullah narrated that:.

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