Jami` at-Tirmidhi #1568

The Book on Vows and Oaths
Sahih

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ، حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنْ سَالِمٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، سَمِعَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم عُمَرَ وَهُوَ يَقُولُ وَأَبِي وَأَبِي فَقَالَ ‏ "‏ أَلاَ إِنَّ اللَّهَ يَنْهَاكُمْ أَنْ تَحْلِفُوا بِآبَائِكُمْ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ فَقَالَ عُمَرُ فَوَاللَّهِ مَا حَلَفْتُ بِهِ بَعْدَ ذَلِكَ ذَاكِرًا وَلاَ آثِرًا ‏.‏ قَالَ وَفِي الْبَابِ عَنْ ثَابِتِ بْنِ الضَّحَّاكِ وَابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ وَأَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ وَقُتَيْلَةَ وَعَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ سَمُرَةَ ‏.‏ قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى حَدِيثُ ابْنِ عُمَرَ حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ ‏.‏ قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى قَالَ أَبُو عُبَيْدٍ مَعْنَى قَوْلِهِ وَلاَ آثِرًا ‏.‏ أَىْ لَمْ آثُرْهُ عَنْ غَيْرِي يَقُولُ لَمْ أَذْكُرْهُ عَنْ غَيْرِي ‏.‏
From his father (Ibn 'Umar) that the Prophet (ﷺ) heard 'Umar saying: "By my father, By my father!" So he said: "Verily Allah prohibits you from swearing by your father." So 'Umar said: "By Allah I did not swear by him after that, neither intentionally nor in narrating."
Narrated by Narrated Salim:

Context

In this hadith, the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) advises against swearing by one's father, emphasizing the importance of ethical speech. Umar ibn Al-Khattab reflects on this guidance, stating that he refrained from such oaths thereafter. This highlights the significance of language and the values associated with oaths.

Modern Application

This principle can be applied in modern communication, where the integrity of speech is paramount. It encourages individuals to be mindful of their words and to avoid invoking familial ties in oaths, promoting honesty and respect.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Ethics of Speech and Oaths & Vows because it addresses the moral considerations surrounding the use of oaths in communication.

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This hadith is #1568 from Jami` at-Tirmidhi, in the Book of The Book on Vows and Oaths. It is graded Sahih and narrated by Narrated Salim:.

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