Jami` at-Tirmidhi #1987
Chapters on Righteousness And Maintaining Good Relations With Relatives
The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ مَرْزُوقٍ الْبَصْرِيُّ، حَدَّثَنَا عُبَيْدُ بْنُ وَاقِدٍ، عَنْ زَرْبِيٍّ، قَالَ سَمِعْتُ أَنَسَ بْنَ مَالِكٍ، يَقُولُ جَاءَ شَيْخٌ يُرِيدُ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَأَبْطَأَ الْقَوْمُ عَنْهُ أَنْ يُوَسِّعُوا لَهُ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم
" لَيْسَ مِنَّا مَنْ لَمْ يَرْحَمْ صَغِيرَنَا وَيُوَقِّرْ كَبِيرَنَا " . قَالَ وَفِي الْبَابِ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو وَأَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ وَابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ وَأَبِي أُمَامَةَ . قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ غَرِيبٌ . وَزَرْبِيٌّ لَهُ أَحَادِيثُ مَنَاكِيرُ عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ وَغَيْرِهِ .
"An older man came to talk to the Prophet, and the people were hesitant to make room for him. The Prophet said: ;He is not one of us who does not have mercy on our young and does not respect our elders."
Narrated by Anas bin Malik narrated that:
Context
Anas bin Malik narrates that an older man approached the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ), and the people were slow to make room for him. The Prophet (ﷺ) remarked that one is not among them if they do not show mercy to the young and respect for the elders. This highlights the importance of community values and mutual respect across generations.
Modern Application
In today's context, this hadith serves as a reminder to foster an inclusive environment where all individuals, regardless of age, are treated with respect and kindness. It encourages us to actively make space for the elderly and to teach younger generations the value of respect.
Topics
This hadith is tagged with Community and Respectful Communication because it emphasizes the importance of mutual respect and compassion within a community.
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About Jami` at-Tirmidhi
This hadith is #1987 from Jami` at-Tirmidhi, in the Book of Chapters on Righteousness And Maintaining Good Relations With Relatives. It is graded Hasan and narrated by Anas bin Malik narrated that:.