Jami` at-Tirmidhi #2765
Chapters on Seeking Permission
The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.
حَدَّثَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ، حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ لَهِيعَةَ، عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ شُعَيْبٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ جَدِّهِ، أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ
" لَيْسَ مِنَّا مَنْ تَشَبَّهَ بِغَيْرِنَا لاَ تَشَبَّهُوا بِالْيَهُودِ وَلاَ بِالنَّصَارَى فَإِنَّ تَسْلِيمَ الْيَهُودِ الإِشَارَةُ بِالأَصَابِعِ وَتَسْلِيمَ النَّصَارَى الإِشَارَةُ بِالأَكُفِّ " . قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ إِسْنَادُهُ ضَعِيفٌ . وَرَوَى ابْنُ الْمُبَارَكِ هَذَا الْحَدِيثَ عَنِ ابْنِ لَهِيعَةَ فَلَمْ يَرْفَعْهُ .
from his father, from his grandfather, that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: "He is not one of us who resembles other than us, no who resembles the Jews nor the Christians. For indeed greeting of the Jews is pointing the finger, and the greeting of the Christians is waving with the hand."
Narrated by Narrated 'Amr bin Shu'aib:
Context
This hadith addresses the importance of maintaining distinct Islamic practices, particularly in greetings. The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) emphasizes the need to avoid imitating non-Muslim customs, which reflects a broader principle of preserving Islamic identity and values.
Modern Application
In today's multicultural society, this hadith encourages Muslims to embrace their identity by practicing unique Islamic customs, such as specific greetings. It fosters a sense of belonging and pride in one's faith while promoting respect for cultural differences.
Topics
This hadith is tagged with Prophetic Conduct and Respectful Greetings because it emphasizes the importance of maintaining Islamic identity through distinct practices.
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And I have followed the religion of my fathers, Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. And it was not for us to associate anything with Allah. That is from the favor of Allah upon us and upon the people, but most of the people are not grateful.
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About Jami` at-Tirmidhi
This hadith is #2765 from Jami` at-Tirmidhi, in the Book of Chapters on Seeking Permission. It is graded Sahih and narrated by Narrated 'Amr bin Shu'aib:.