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Jami` at-Tirmidhi #2904

Chapters on Manners
Da'if

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا هَنَّادٌ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو مُعَاوِيَةَ، عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ، ح قَالَ وَحَدَّثَنِي ابْنُ أَبِي عُمَرَ، حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ، عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ، عَنْ شَقِيقٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏"‏ إِذَا كُنْتُمْ ثَلاَثَةً فَلاَ يَتَنَاجَى اثْنَانِ دُونَ صَاحِبِهِمَا ‏"‏ ‏.‏ وَقَالَ سُفْيَانُ فِي حَدِيثِهِ ‏"‏ لاَ يَتَنَاجَى اثْنَانِ دُونَ الثَّالِثِ فَإِنَّ ذَلِكَ يُحْزِنُهُ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ ‏.‏ - وَقَدْ رُوِيَ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم أَنَّهُ قَالَ ‏"‏ لاَ يَتَنَاجَى اثْنَانِ دُونَ وَاحِدٍ فَإِنَّ ذَلِكَ يُؤْذِي الْمُؤْمِنَ وَاللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ يَكْرَهُ أَذَى الْمُؤْمِنِ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ وَفِي الْبَابِ عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ وَأَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ وَابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ ‏.‏
that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: "Whenever there are three of you, then let two not converse in exclusion of their companion."
Narrated by Narrated 'Abdullah:

Context

In this hadith, the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) emphasizes the importance of inclusivity in conversation among friends. He advises that when three people are together, two should not engage in private conversation that excludes the third person. This guidance aims to prevent feelings of sadness or alienation, ensuring that all individuals feel valued and included in social interactions.

Modern Application

In today's social settings, this principle can be applied by being mindful of how we communicate in groups. When in a conversation, it is considerate to include everyone present, fostering a sense of belonging and respect among peers, which enhances relationships and group dynamics.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Respectful Communication and Prophetic Etiquette because it highlights the importance of inclusive dialogue and the manner in which the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) encouraged respectful interactions.

Respectful CommunicationProphetic Etiquette

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About Jami` at-Tirmidhi

This hadith is #2904 from Jami` at-Tirmidhi, in the Book of Chapters on Manners. It is graded Da'if and narrated by Narrated 'Abdullah:.

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