from their father: "The Companions of the Prophet (ﷺ) said, to an unknowing Bedouin man: 'Ask him who it is that has fulfilled his vow.' They were not in the habit of asking him questions out of their respect and reverence for him. So the Bedouin asked him, but he turned away from him. Then he asked him again, but he turned away from him. Then again he asked him, but he turned away from him. Then I stood looking from the door of the Masjid, while I was wearing a green garment, and I saw the Prophet (ﷺ), he said: 'Where is the one who was asking about the one who fulfilled his vow?' The Bedouin said: 'Here I am O Messenger of Allah!' The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: 'This is one who has fulfilled his vow.'"
Narrated by Narrated Musa and 'Eisa, the sons of Talhah:
Context
This hadith describes an interaction between the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) and a Bedouin man who is seeking knowledge. Despite the companions' initial hesitance to question the Prophet due to their respect for him, the Prophet encourages the inquiry. This illustrates the importance of respectful communication and the Prophet's approachability.
Modern Application
In contemporary settings, this hadith encourages us to ask questions respectfully, especially when seeking knowledge. It highlights the importance of creating an environment where inquiry is welcomed and respected, fostering learning and understanding.
Topics
This hadith is tagged with Prophetic Conduct and Respectful Communication because it showcases the Prophet's encouragement of questions and respectful dialogue, promoting a culture of learning.
The believers are only those who believe in Allah and His Messenger and, when they are [meeting] with him for a matter of common interest, do not depart until they have asked his permission. Indeed, those who ask your permission, [O Muhammad] - those are the ones who believe in Allah and His Messenger. So when they ask your permission for something of their affairs, then give permission to whom you will among them and ask forgiveness for them of Allah. Indeed, Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.
Then one of the two women came to him walking with shyness. She said, "Indeed, my father invites you that he may reward you for having watered for us." So when he came to him and related to him the story, he said, "Fear not. You have escaped from the wrongdoing people."
O Prophet, when the believing women come to you pledging to you that they will not associate anything with Allah, nor will they steal, nor will they commit unlawful sexual intercourse, nor will they kill their children, nor will they bring forth a slander they have invented between their arms and legs, nor will they disobey you in what is right - then accept their pledge and ask forgiveness for them of Allah. Indeed, Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.
This hadith is #3836 from Jami` at-Tirmidhi, in the Book of Chapters on Virtues. It is graded Hasan and narrated by Narrated Musa and 'Eisa, the sons of Talhah:.