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Jami` at-Tirmidhi #3912

Chapters on Virtues
Da'if

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا الْجَرَّاحُ بْنُ مَخْلَدٍ الْبَصْرِيُّ، وَغَيْرُ، وَاحِدٍ، قَالُوا حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عُمَرَ بْنِ الرُّومِيِّ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُسْهِرٍ، عَنْ إِسْمَاعِيلَ بْنِ أَبِي خَالِدٍ، عَنْ أَبِي عَمْرٍو الشَّيْبَانِيِّ، قَالَ أَخْبَرَنِي جَبَلَةُ بْنُ حَارِثَةَ، أَخُو زَيْدٍ قَالَ قَدِمْتُ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَقُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ابْعَثْ مَعِي أَخِي زَيْدًا ‏.‏ قَالَ ‏"‏ هُوَ ذَا ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَ ‏"‏ فَإِنِ انْطَلَقَ مَعَكَ لَمْ أَمْنَعْهُ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَ زَيْدٌ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ وَاللَّهِ لاَ أَخْتَارُ عَلَيْكَ أَحَدًا ‏.‏ قَالَ فَرَأَيْتُ رَأْىَ أَخِي أَفْضَلَ مِنْ رَأْيِي ‏.‏ هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ غَرِيبٌ لاَ نَعْرِفُهُ إِلاَّ مِنْ حَدِيثِ ابْنِ الرُّومِيِّ عَنْ عَلِيِّ بْنِ مُسْهِرٍ ‏.‏
"I came to the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) and said: 'O Messenger of Allah, send my brother Zaid with me.' He said: 'Here he is.' He said: "'If he goes with you, I will not prevent him.' Zaid said: 'O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, I will not choose anyone over you.'" He said: "So I considered the view of my brother to be better than my own view."
Narrated by Narrated Jabalah bin Harithah, the brother of Zaid:

Context

In this hadith, Jabalah bin Harithah seeks the Prophet Muhammad's (ﷺ) permission for his brother Zaid to accompany him. The Prophet's response reflects the importance of mutual respect and consideration in relationships. This interaction highlights the value of communication and the significance of seeking permission.

Modern Application

In contemporary life, this hadith serves as a reminder of the importance of respectful communication and seeking consent in various relationships, whether personal or professional. It encourages individuals to value the opinions and feelings of others.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Respectful Communication and Seeking Permission because it illustrates the importance of mutual respect and communication in relationships.

Respectful CommunicationSeeking Permission

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About Jami` at-Tirmidhi

This hadith is #3912 from Jami` at-Tirmidhi, in the Book of Chapters on Virtues. It is graded Da'if and narrated by Narrated Jabalah bin Harithah, the brother of Zaid:.

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