Jami` at-Tirmidhi #729
The Book on Fasting
The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.
حَدَّثَنَا هَنَّادٌ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو مُعَاوِيَةَ، عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ، عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، عَنْ عَلْقَمَةَ، وَالأَسْوَدِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم يُقَبِّلُ وَيُبَاشِرُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَكَانَ أَمْلَكَكُمْ لإِرْبِهِ . قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ . وَأَبُو مَيْسَرَةَ اسْمُهُ عَمْرُو بْنُ شُرَحْبِيلَ . وَمَعْنَى لإِرْبِهِ لِنَفْسِهِ .
"The Messenger of Allah would kiss and fondle while he was fasting, and he had the most control among you of his limbs."
Narrated by Aishah narrated:
Context
Aishah narrates that the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ would kiss and fondle while fasting, demonstrating his self-control and the permissible actions during fasting. This highlights the balance between physical desires and spiritual discipline.
Modern Application
This hadith serves as a reminder for Muslims to maintain self-control during fasting, emphasizing that while physical desires exist, they can be managed. It encourages a balanced approach to spirituality and personal conduct.
Topics
This hadith is tagged with Fasting and Prophetic Conduct because it illustrates the Prophet's ﷺ behavior during fasting and the importance of self-control.
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About Jami` at-Tirmidhi
This hadith is #729 from Jami` at-Tirmidhi, in the Book of The Book on Fasting. It is graded Da'if and narrated by Aishah narrated:.