Muwatta Malik #566
Burials
The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.
وَحَدَّثَنِي عَنْ مَالِكٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي بَكْرٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَمْرَةَ بِنْتِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ، أَنَّهَا أَخْبَرَتْهُ أَنَّهَا، سَمِعَتْ عَائِشَةَ أُمَّ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ، تَقُولُ وَذُكِرَ لَهَا أَنَّ عَبْدَ اللَّهِ بْنَ عُمَرَ يَقُولُ إِنَّ الْمَيِّتَ لَيُعَذَّبُ بِبُكَاءِ الْحَىِّ . فَقَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ يَغْفِرُ اللَّهُ لأَبِي عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ أَمَا إِنَّهُ لَمْ يَكْذِبْ وَلَكِنَّهُ نَسِيَ أَوْ أَخْطَأَ إِنَّمَا مَرَّ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم بِيَهُودِيَّةٍ يَبْكِي عَلَيْهَا أَهْلُهَا فَقَالَ
" إِنَّكُمْ لَتَبْكُونَ عَلَيْهَا وَإِنَّهَا لَتُعَذَّبُ فِي قَبْرِهَا " .
Yahya related to me from Malik from Abdullah ibn Abi Bakr from
his father that Amra bint Abd ar-Rahman told him that she had heard
A'isha, the umm al-muminin, say (when it was mentioned to her that
Abdullah ibn Umar used to say, "The dead are tormented by the weeping
of the living"), "May Allah forgive Abu Abd ar-Rahman. Of course he
has not lied, but he has forgotten, or made a mistake. The Messenger
of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, passed by a jewish
woman whose family were crying over her and he said, 'You are crying
over her, and she is being tormented in her grave. ' "
About Muwatta Malik
This hadith is #566 from Muwatta Malik, in the Book of Burials.