Sahih al-Bukhari #5017

Wedlock, Marriage (Nikaah)
Sahih

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ أَبِي بَكْرٍ الْمُقَدَّمِيُّ، حَدَّثَنَا مُعْتَمِرٌ، عَنْ عُبَيْدِ اللَّهِ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ الْمُنْكَدِرِ، عَنْ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ـ رضى الله عنهما ـ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ ‏ "‏ دَخَلْتُ الْجَنَّةَ ـ أَوْ أَتَيْتُ الْجَنَّةَ ـ فَأَبْصَرْتُ قَصْرًا فَقُلْتُ لِمَنْ هَذَا قَالُوا لِعُمَرَ بْنِ الْخَطَّابِ‏.‏ فَأَرَدْتُ أَنْ أَدْخُلَهُ فَلَمْ يَمْنَعْنِي إِلاَّ عِلْمِي بِغَيْرَتِكَ ‏"‏‏.‏ قَالَ عُمَرُ بْنُ الْخَطَّابِ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ بِأَبِي أَنْتَ وَأُمِّي يَا نَبِيَّ اللَّهِ أَوَعَلَيْكَ أَغَارُ‏.‏
The Prophet, said, "I entered Paradise and saw a palace and asked whose palace is this? They (the Angels) said, "This palace belongs to `Umar bin Al-Khattab.' I intended to enter it, and nothing stopped me except my knowledge about your sense of Ghira (self-respect (O `Umar)." `Umar said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! Let my father and mother be sacrificed for you! O Allah's Prophet! How dare I think of my Ghira (self-respect) being offended by you?"
Narrated by Narrated Jabir:

Context

In this hadith, the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) describes a vision of Paradise where he sees a palace belonging to Umar ibn Al-Khattab. The Prophet's intention to enter the palace is halted by his awareness of Umar's feelings of self-respect (Ghira). Umar, upon hearing this, expresses his deep respect and admiration for the Prophet (ﷺ), indicating that he would never feel offended by him. This interaction highlights the themes of respect and honor among companions.

Modern Application

In today's context, this hadith emphasizes the importance of respecting boundaries in relationships, particularly in marriage. Understanding and honoring each other's feelings can strengthen bonds and foster trust between partners.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Prophetic Conduct because it illustrates the respectful and considerate nature of the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) in his interactions with his companions.

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This hadith is #5017 from Sahih al-Bukhari, in the Book of Wedlock, Marriage (Nikaah). It is graded Sahih and narrated by Narrated Jabir:.

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