Sahih al-Bukhari #5034

Wedlock, Marriage (Nikaah)
Sahih

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا آدَمُ، حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ، حَدَّثَنَا مُحَارِبُ بْنُ دِثَارٍ، قَالَ سَمِعْتُ جَابِرَ بْنَ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ـ رضى الله عنه ـ قَالَ كَانَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَكْرَهُ أَنْ يَأْتِيَ الرَّجُلُ أَهْلَهُ طُرُوقًا‏.‏
The Prophet (ﷺ) disliked that one should go to one's family at night (on returning from a journey).
Narrated by Narrated Jabir bin `Abdullah:

Context

Jabir bin Abdullah narrates that the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) disliked returning home to one's family at night after a journey. This preference reflects the importance of ensuring a safe and considerate approach to family reunions, allowing for proper rest and preparation before re-engaging with loved ones.

Modern Application

In contemporary life, this hadith reminds us to be mindful of our family's needs and well-being. Planning our returns home thoughtfully can foster better relationships and ensure smoother transitions after time apart.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Hospitality in Islam because it emphasizes the importance of considerate behavior towards one's family.

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So set out with your family during a portion of the night and follow behind them and let not anyone among you look back and continue on to where you are commanded."

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This hadith is #5034 from Sahih al-Bukhari, in the Book of Wedlock, Marriage (Nikaah). It is graded Sahih and narrated by Narrated Jabir bin `Abdullah:.

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