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Sahih al-Bukhari #5145

Supporting the Family
Sahih

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ مُقَاتِلٍ، أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ، أَخْبَرَنَا يُونُسُ، عَنِ ابْنِ شِهَابٍ، أَخْبَرَنِي عُرْوَةُ، أَنَّ عَائِشَةَ ـ رضى الله عنها ـ قَالَتْ جَاءَتْ هِنْدُ بِنْتُ عُتْبَةَ فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ مِسِّيكٌ، فَهَلْ عَلَىَّ حَرَجٌ أَنْ أُطْعِمَ مِنَ الَّذِي لَهُ عِيَالَنَا قَالَ ‏ "‏ لاَ إِلاَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ ‏"‏‏.‏
Hind bint `Utba came and said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! Abu Sufyan is a miser so is it sinful of me to feed our children from his property?" Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "No except if you take for your needs what is just and reasonable. "
Narrated by Narrated `Aisha:

Context

In this hadith, Hind bint `Utba seeks guidance from the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) about feeding her children from her husband's property, which she describes as being insufficient. The Prophet's response emphasizes the importance of fairness and moderation in using family resources, ensuring that one's needs are met without excess.

Modern Application

This principle applies today in discussions about financial responsibilities within families. It encourages individuals to be just and reasonable in their use of shared resources, particularly when it comes to supporting family members.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Charity and Spousal Rights because it addresses the ethical considerations in using family resources and the importance of fairness in marital relationships.

CharitySpousal Rights

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About Sahih al-Bukhari

This hadith is #5145 from Sahih al-Bukhari, in the Book of Supporting the Family. It is graded Sahih and narrated by Narrated `Aisha:.

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