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Sahih al-Bukhari #5770

Good Manners and Form (Al-Adab)
Sahih

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يُوسُفَ، حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ، عَنْ هِشَامٍ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ـ رضى الله عنها ـ قَالَتْ جَاءَ أَعْرَابِيٌّ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَقَالَ تُقَبِّلُونَ الصِّبْيَانَ فَمَا نُقَبِّلُهُمْ‏.‏ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏ "‏ أَوَ أَمْلِكُ لَكَ أَنْ نَزَعَ اللَّهُ مِنْ قَلْبِكَ الرَّحْمَةَ ‏"‏‏.‏
A bedouin came to the Prophet (ﷺ) and said, "You (people) kiss the boys! We don't kiss them." The Prophet said, "I cannot put mercy in your heart after Allah has taken it away from it."
Narrated by Narrated `Aisha:

Context

In this hadith, a Bedouin approached the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) expressing his disbelief at the affectionate behavior of kissing children, which was common among the Prophet's companions. The Prophet (ﷺ) responded by highlighting the importance of mercy in the heart, indicating that such affection is a reflection of compassion bestowed by Allah. This interaction emphasizes the cultural differences in expressing love and affection, while also underscoring the significance of mercy in Islam.

Modern Application

In today's parenting, this hadith encourages parents to express love and affection towards their children. It serves as a reminder that showing kindness and warmth can foster a nurturing environment, helping children grow up with a sense of security and love.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Community and Prophetic Teachings because it illustrates the importance of compassion and affection in social interactions as taught by the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ).

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This hadith is #5770 from Sahih al-Bukhari, in the Book of Good Manners and Form (Al-Adab). It is graded Sahih and narrated by Narrated `Aisha:.

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