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Sahih al-Bukhari #5796

Good Manners and Form (Al-Adab)
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The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْعَزِيزِ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، حَدَّثَنَا إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ سَعْدٍ، عَنْ صَالِحٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ شِهَابٍ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ بْنِ الزُّبَيْرِ، أَنَّ عَائِشَةَ ـ رضى الله عنها ـ زَوْجَ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَتْ دَخَلَ رَهْطٌ مِنَ الْيَهُودِ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَقَالُوا السَّامُ عَلَيْكُمْ‏.‏ قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ فَفَهِمْتُهَا فَقُلْتُ وَعَلَيْكُمُ السَّامُ وَاللَّعْنَةُ‏.‏ قَالَتْ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏"‏ مَهْلاً يَا عَائِشَةُ، إِنَّ اللَّهَ يُحِبُّ الرِّفْقَ فِي الأَمْرِ كُلِّهِ ‏"‏‏.‏ فَقُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ وَلَمْ تَسْمَعْ مَا قَالُوا قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏"‏ قَدْ قُلْتُ وَعَلَيْكُمْ ‏"‏‏.‏
(the wife of the Prophet) A group of Jews entered upon the Prophet (ﷺ) and said, "As-Samu-Alaikum." (i.e. death be upon you). I understood it and said, "Wa-Alaikum As-Samu wal-la'n. (death and the curse of Allah be Upon you)." Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said "Be calm, O `Aisha! Allah loves that on, should be kind and lenient in all matters." I said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! Haven't you heard what they (the Jews) have said?" Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said "I have (already) said (to them) "And upon you ! "
Narrated by Narrated `Aisha:

Context

Aisha narrates an incident where a group of Jews greeted the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) with a phrase wishing death upon him. In response, she reacted harshly, but the Prophet advised her to be calm and gentle, emphasizing that Allah loves kindness in all matters. This highlights the importance of maintaining composure and responding with kindness, even in the face of hostility.

Modern Application

This hadith is particularly relevant today as it encourages respectful communication and the practice of patience in difficult interactions. It serves as a reminder to approach conflicts with a spirit of kindness and understanding, fostering better relationships.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Respectful Communication and Prophetic Etiquette because it illustrates the importance of responding with gentleness and respect, as exemplified by the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ).

Respectful CommunicationProphetic Etiquette

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This hadith is #5796 from Sahih al-Bukhari, in the Book of Good Manners and Form (Al-Adab). It is graded Sahih and narrated by Narrated `Aisha:.

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