Uyaina bin Hisn bin Hudhaifa bin Badr came and stayed (at Medina) with his nephew Al-Hurr bin
Qais bin Hisn who was one of those whom `Umar used to keep near him, as the Qurra' (learned men
knowing Qur'an by heart) were the people of `Umar's meetings and his advisors whether they were old
or young. 'Uyaina said to his nephew, "O my nephew! Have you an approach to this chief so as to get
for me the permission to see him?" His nephew said, "I will get the permission for you to see him."
(Ibn `Abbas added: ) So he took the permission for 'Uyaina, and when the latter entered, he said, "O
the son of Al-Khattab! By Allah, you neither give us sufficient provision nor judge among us with
justice." On that `Umar became so furious that he intended to harm him. Al-Hurr, said, "O Chief of
the Believers!" Allah said to His Apostle 'Hold to forgiveness, command what is good (right), and
leave the foolish (i.e. do not punish them).' (7.199) and this person is among the foolish." By Allah,
`Umar did not overlook that Verse when Al-Hurr recited it before him, and `Umar said to observe (the
orders of) Allah's Book strictly." (See Hadith No. 166, Vol. 6)
Narrated by Narrated `Abdullah bin `Abbas:
Context
Ibn Abbas narrates an incident where 'Uyaina confronted Umar with harsh words, prompting a reaction of anger. However, Al-Hurr reminded Umar of the Quranic command to hold to forgiveness and avoid the foolish. This illustrates the importance of patience and the application of divine guidance in handling conflicts.
Modern Application
In contemporary life, this teaches the value of responding to provocation with patience and wisdom. It encourages individuals to seek guidance from their faith when faced with challenging interactions, promoting a more peaceful resolution.
Topics
This hadith is tagged with Justice and Prophetic Conduct because it emphasizes the importance of applying divine guidance in dealing with conflicts and maintaining justice.
May Allah pardon you, [O Muhammad]; why did you give them permission [to remain behind]? [You should not have] until it was evident to you who were truthful and you knew [who were] the liars.
So by mercy from Allah, [O Muhammad], you were lenient with them. And if you had been rude [in speech] and harsh in heart, they would have disbanded from about you. So pardon them and ask forgiveness for them and consult them in the matter. And when you have decided, then rely upon Allah. Indeed, Allah loves those who rely [upon Him].
And let not those of virtue among you and wealth swear not to give [aid] to their relatives and the needy and the emigrants for the cause of Allah, and let them pardon and overlook. Would you not like that Allah should forgive you? And Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.
This hadith is #7009 from Sahih al-Bukhari, in the Book of Holding Fast to the Qur'an and Sunnah. It is graded Sahih and narrated by Narrated `Abdullah bin `Abbas:.