Sahih Muslim #3400

The Book of Marriage
Sahih

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

وَحَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ أَبِي عُمَرَ، حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ، قَالَ قُلْتُ لِلزُّهْرِيِّ يَا أَبَا بَكْرٍ كَيْفَ هَذَا الْحَدِيثُ شَرُّ الطَّعَامِ طَعَامُ الأَغْنِيَاءِ فَضَحِكَ فَقَالَ لَيْسَ هُوَ شَرُّ الطَّعَامِ طَعَامُ الأَغْنِيَاءِ ‏.‏ قَالَ سُفْيَانُ وَكَانَ أَبِي غَنِيًّا فَأَفْزَعَنِي هَذَا الْحَدِيثُ حِينَ سَمِعْتُ بِهِ فَسَأَلْتُ عَنْهُ الزُّهْرِيَّ فَقَالَ حَدَّثَنِي عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ الأَعْرَجُ أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ أَبَا هُرَيْرَةَ يَقُولُ شَرُّ الطَّعَامِ طَعَامُ الْوَلِيمَةِ ‏.‏ ثُمَّ ذَكَرَ بِمِثْلِ حَدِيثِ مَالِكٍ.
I said to Zuhri: Abu Bakr, what does this hadith mean:" The worst kind of food is at a wedding feast of the rich"? He laughed and said: The food served in the feast given by the rich is not worst (in itself). Sufyan said: My father was rich, so I felt disturbed when I heard this hadith, so I asked Zuhri who said: I heard from 'Abd al-Rahman al-Alraj that he heard Abu Huraira (Allah he pleased with him) say: The worst kind of food is that served at the wedding feast. The rest of the hadith is the same.
Narrated by Sufyan reported:

Context

In this hadith, the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) discusses the nature of food served at wedding feasts, particularly those hosted by the wealthy. The narrator, Sufyan, expresses concern about the implication that the food of the rich is inferior. However, the conversation reveals that the worst food is not inherently the food itself but the attitude and behavior surrounding such feasts. The takeaway emphasizes the importance of humility and sincerity in hospitality.

Modern Application

In today's society, this principle reminds us to focus on the quality of our intentions rather than the extravagance of our gatherings. When hosting events, it is essential to prioritize genuine connections and the spirit of sharing over the display of wealth.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Hospitality because it highlights the importance of the intention behind hosting and sharing food, rather than the wealth of the host.

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This hadith is #3400 from Sahih Muslim, in the Book of The Book of Marriage. It is graded Sahih and narrated by Sufyan reported:.

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