A beggar came to 'Adi b. Hatim and he begged him to give him the price of a slave, or some portion of the price of the slave. He ('Adi) said: I have nothing to give you except my coat-of-mail and helmet. I will, however, write to my family to give that to you, but he did not agree to that. Thereupon 'Adi was enraged, and said: By Allah, I will not give you anything. The person (then) agreed to accept that, whereupon he said: By Allah, had I not heard Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) saying:" He who took an oath, but then found something more pious in the sight of Allah, he should (break the oath) and do that which is more pious," I would not have broken the oath (and thus paid you anything).
Narrated by Tamim b. Tarafa reported:
Context
In this hadith, 'Adi b. Hatim encounters a beggar seeking assistance to purchase a servant. Initially frustrated, he recalls the Prophet Muhammad's (ﷺ) teaching about oaths and decides to break his oath to help the beggar. This illustrates the Prophet's teachings on prioritizing piety and compassion over rigid adherence to promises.
Modern Application
This principle is relevant today as it encourages individuals to act with kindness and integrity, especially when faced with moral dilemmas. It reminds us that sometimes, doing the right thing may require us to reassess our commitments.
Topics
This hadith is tagged with Truthfulness and Oaths and Vows because it highlights the importance of prioritizing ethical actions over strict adherence to oaths when circumstances change.
Allah will not impose blame upon you for what is meaningless in your oaths, but He will impose blame upon you for [breaking] what you intended of oaths. So its expiation is the feeding of ten needy people from the average of that which you feed your [own] families or clothing them or the freeing of a slave. But whoever cannot find [or afford it] - then a fast of three days [is required]. That is the expiation for oaths when you have sworn. But guard your oaths. Thus does Allah make clear to you His verses that you may be grateful.
And he who does not find [a slave] - then a fast for two months consecutively before they touch one another; and he who is unable - then the feeding of sixty poor persons. That is for you to believe [completely] in Allah and His Messenger; and those are the limits [set by] Allah. And for the disbelievers is a painful punishment.
Nor [is there blame] upon those who, when they came to you that you might give them mounts, you said, "I can find nothing for you to ride upon." They turned back while their eyes overflowed with tears out of grief that they could not find something to spend [for the cause of Allah].