Sahih Muslim #4831

The Book on Government
Sahih

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

وَحَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ، حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدٌ، - يَعْنِي ابْنَ جَعْفَرٍ - حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ، عَنْ عَاصِمٍ، عَنِ الشَّعْبِيِّ، عَنْ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، قَالَ نَهَى رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم إِذَا أَطَالَ الرَّجُلُ الْغَيْبَةَ أَنْ يَأْتِيَ أَهْلَهُ طُرُوقًا ‏.‏
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) forbade that a man who had long absent should come to his family like (an unexpected) night visitor.
Narrated by It has been narrated (through a different chain of tranmitters) on the authority of Jabir who said:

Context

This hadith addresses the etiquette of returning home after a long absence. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ advised against surprising one's family by arriving unexpectedly, as this could cause distress. The emphasis is on maintaining family harmony and ensuring that loved ones are prepared for the return of a family member.

Modern Application

In modern life, this principle can be applied by communicating with family members about travel plans or unexpected delays. By giving notice, we can foster a sense of security and anticipation, strengthening family bonds and reducing anxiety during reunions.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Family and Hospitality in Islam because it emphasizes the importance of considerate behavior towards family members, ensuring their emotional well-being during reunions.

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This hadith is #4831 from Sahih Muslim, in the Book of The Book on Government. It is graded Sahih and narrated by It has been narrated (through a different chain of tranmitters) on the authority of Jabir who said:.

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