0 Allah, enable me to derive benefit from my husband, the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ), and from my father Abu Sufyan and from my brother Mu'awiya. Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) said: You have asked from Allah about durations of life already set, and the length of days already allotted and the sustenances the share of which has been fixed. Allah would not do anything earlier before its due time, or He would not delay anything beyond its due time. And if you were to ask Allah to provide you refuge from the torment of the HellFire, or from the torment of the grave, it would have good in store for you and better for you also. He (the narrator) further said: Mention was made before him about monkeys, and Mis'ar (one of the narrators) said: I think that (the narrator) also (made a mention) of the swine, which had suffered metamorphosis. Thereupon he (the Holy Prophet) said: Verily, Allah did not cause the race of those which suffered metamorphosis to grow or they were not survived by young ones. Monkeys and swine had been in existence even before (the metamorphosis of the human beings).
Narrated by Abdullah reported that Umm Habiba, the wife of Allah's Apostle (ﷺ), said:
Context
In this hadith, Umm Habiba, the wife of the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, expresses her desire for blessings in her family. The Prophet ﷺ responds by explaining the nature of divine decrees regarding life and sustenance, emphasizing the importance of seeking refuge from punishment rather than worldly desires.
Modern Application
This principle can be applied today by focusing our supplications on what truly matters, such as seeking protection from harm and striving for spiritual growth. It encourages a mindset that prioritizes eternal well-being over temporary desires.
Topics
This hadith is tagged with Divine Decree and Supplication because it highlights the significance of understanding divine wisdom in life matters and the importance of sincere supplication.
Say, [O Muhammad], "If your fathers, your sons, your brothers, your wives, your relatives, wealth which you have obtained, commerce wherein you fear decline, and dwellings with which you are pleased are more beloved to you than Allah and His Messenger and jihad in His cause, then wait until Allah executes His command. And Allah does not guide the defiantly disobedient people."
O Prophet, why do you prohibit [yourself from] what Allah has made lawful for you, seeking the approval of your wives? And Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.
It is that of which Allah gives good tidings to His servants who believe and do righteous deeds. Say, [O Muhammad], "I do not ask you for this message any payment [but] only good will through kinship." And whoever commits a good deed - We will increase for him good therein. Indeed, Allah is Forgiving and Appreciative.
And Allah has made for you from yourselves mates and has made for you from your mates sons and grandchildren and has provided for you from the good things. Then in falsehood do they believe and in the favor of Allah they disbelieve?
This hadith is #6606 from Sahih Muslim, in the Book of The Book of Destiny. It is graded Sahih and narrated by Abdullah reported that Umm Habiba, the wife of Allah's Apostle (ﷺ), said:.