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Sunan Abu Dawud #5220

General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab)

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا مُسَدَّدٌ، حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنْ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، أَنَّ الأَقْرَعَ بْنَ حَابِسٍ، أَبْصَرَ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم وَهُوَ يُقَبِّلُ حُسَيْنًا فَقَالَ إِنَّ لِي عَشْرَةً مِنَ الْوَلَدِ مَا فَعَلْتُ هَذَا بِوَاحِدٍ مِنْهُمْ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏ "‏ مَنْ لاَ يَرْحَمُ لاَ يُرْحَمُ ‏"‏ ‏.‏
I have ten children and I have never kissed any of them. The Messenger of Allah(ﷺ) said: He who does not show tenderness will not be shown tenderness.
Narrated by Abu Hurairah said; Al-Aqra’ b. Habib saw that the Messenger of Allah(ﷺ) was kissing Husain. He said:

Context

In this hadith, Abu Hurairah narrates an incident where Al-Aqra’ b. Habib observed the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) kissing his grandson Husain. Al-Aqra’ expressed surprise, stating that he had ten children but had never shown such affection. The Prophet (ﷺ) responded with a profound principle: 'He who does not show tenderness will not be shown tenderness.' This highlights the importance of compassion and affection in relationships.

Modern Application

In today's world, this hadith encourages parents and guardians to express love and tenderness towards their children. Simple acts of affection, like hugs or kind words, can foster strong emotional bonds and create a nurturing environment for growth and development.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Prophetic Etiquette because it emphasizes the importance of showing affection and tenderness, which were exemplified by the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) in his interactions.

Prophetic Etiquette

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This hadith is #5220 from Sunan Abu Dawud, in the Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab) and narrated by Abu Hurairah said; Al-Aqra’ b. Habib saw that the Messenger of Allah(ﷺ) was kissing Husain. He said:.

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