Sunan an-Nasa'i #1865

The Book of Funerals
Sahih

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

أَخْبَرَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ خَشْرَمٍ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عِيسَى، عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ، ح أَنْبَأَنَا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ إِدْرِيسَ، عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ مُرَّةَ، عَنْ مَسْرُوقٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏"‏ لَيْسَ مِنَّا مَنْ ضَرَبَ الْخُدُودَ وَشَقَّ الْجُيُوبَ وَدَعَا بِدُعَاءِ الْجَاهِلِيَّةِ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ وَاللَّفْظُ لِعَلِيٍّ وَقَالَ الْحَسَنُ ‏"‏ بِدَعْوَى ‏"‏ ‏.‏
"The Messenger of Allah said: 'He is not one of us who strikes his cheeks, rends his garment, calls out the calls of the Jahiliyyah."'
Narrated by It was narrated that 'Abdullah said:

Context

In this hadith, the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ emphasizes the importance of maintaining dignity and composure in times of grief. He condemns the practices of striking one's cheeks and tearing garments, which were common expressions of mourning during the Jahiliyyah (pre-Islamic period). The takeaway is that true mourning should not involve actions that are disrespectful or excessive.

Modern Application

In contemporary society, this principle can be applied by encouraging individuals to express their grief in a dignified manner. Instead of resorting to extreme displays of sorrow, people can find solace in remembrance and prayer, fostering a supportive environment for healing.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Ethical Behavior and Prophetic Conduct because it illustrates the importance of maintaining dignity during mourning and reflects the Prophet's ﷺ guidance on appropriate expressions of grief.

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This hadith is #1865 from Sunan an-Nasa'i, in the Book of The Book of Funerals. It is graded Sahih and narrated by It was narrated that 'Abdullah said:.

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