"My father told me: I witnessed the funeral of 'Abdur-Rahamn bin Samurah. Ziyad came out, walking in front of the bier, and some men from the family of 'Abdur-Rahman and their freed slaves came out, facing the bier and walking backward, saying: 'Slow down, slow down, may Allah bless you.' And they were walking slowly. Then when they were partway to Al-Mrbad, Abu Bakrah joined us on his mule. When he saw what they were doing, he rushed to them on his mule, brandishing his whip, and said: 'Move on, for by the One Who honored the face of Abu Al-Qasim, I remember when we were with the Messenger of Allah, we were walking fast, so the people speeded up."'
Narrated by Uyaynah bin 'Abdur-Rahman bin Jawsh said:
Context
This narration recounts an incident during the funeral of 'Abdur-Rahman bin Samurah, where some individuals walked backward in front of the bier, urging others to slow down. Abu Bakrah intervened, recalling that during the time of the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ), they walked briskly during funerals. The hadith illustrates the balance between showing respect and adhering to the practices taught by the Prophet (ﷺ).
Modern Application
In contemporary society, funerals often involve various customs and practices. This hadith serves as a reminder to maintain respect for the deceased while also adhering to the traditions established by the Prophet (ﷺ), ensuring that the essence of the occasion is preserved.
Topics
This hadith is tagged with Respectful Communication and Funeral Rites because it highlights the importance of respectful behavior during funerals while also referencing the practices established by the Prophet (ﷺ).
And when the caravan departed [from Egypt], their father said, "Indeed, I find the smell of Joseph [and would say that he was alive] if you did not think me weakened in mind."
Then one of the two women came to him walking with shyness. She said, "Indeed, my father invites you that he may reward you for having watered for us." So when he came to him and related to him the story, he said, "Fear not. You have escaped from the wrongdoing people."
O you who have believed, testimony [should be taken] among you when death approaches one of you at the time of bequest - [that of] two just men from among you or two others from outside if you are traveling through the land and the disaster of death should strike you. Detain them after the prayer and let them both swear by Allah if you doubt [their testimony, saying], "We will not exchange our oath for a price, even if he should be a near relative, and we will not withhold the testimony of Allah. Indeed, we would then be of the sinful."
It was not [proper] for the people of Madinah and those surrounding them of the bedouins that they remain behind after [the departure of] the Messenger of Allah or that they prefer themselves over his self. That is because they are not afflicted by thirst or fatigue or hunger in the cause of Allah, nor do they tread on any ground that enrages the disbelievers, nor do they inflict upon an enemy any infliction but that is registered for them as a righteous deed. Indeed, Allah does not allow to be lost the reward of the doers of good.
This hadith is #1917 from Sunan an-Nasa'i, in the Book of The Book of Funerals. It is graded Sahih and narrated by Uyaynah bin 'Abdur-Rahman bin Jawsh said:.