Sunan an-Nasa'i #3697

The Book of Gifts
Sahih

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

أَخْبَرَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ حَفْصٍ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي قَالَ، حَدَّثَنِي إِبْرَاهِيمُ، عَنْ سَعِيدِ بْنِ أَبِي عَرُوبَةَ، عَنْ عَامِرٍ الأَحْوَلِ، عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ شُعَيْبٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ جَدِّهِ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏ "‏ لا يَرْجِعُ أَحَدٌ فِي هِبَتِهِ إِلاَّ وَالِدٌ مِنْ وَلَدِهِ وَالْعَائِدُ فِي هِبَتِهِ كَالْعَائِدِ فِي قَيْئِهِ ‏"‏ ‏.‏
"The Messenger of Allah said: 'No one should take back his gift except a father (taking back a gift) from his son. The one who takes back his gift is like one who goes back to his vomit.'"
Narrated by It was narrated from 'Amr bin Shu'aib, from his father, that his grandfather said:

Context

In this hadith, the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ advises Abu Dharr regarding leadership and responsibility, suggesting that he should not take on roles that may overwhelm him. This highlights the importance of recognizing one's limitations and the ethical considerations in leadership.

Modern Application

Today, this principle serves as a reminder for individuals to assess their capabilities before accepting responsibilities. It encourages people to prioritize their well-being and the welfare of those they lead.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Rights of Orphans because it addresses the responsibilities associated with guardianship and the ethical considerations in caring for vulnerable individuals.

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This hadith is #3697 from Sunan an-Nasa'i, in the Book of The Book of Gifts. It is graded Sahih and narrated by It was narrated from 'Amr bin Shu'aib, from his father, that his grandfather said:.

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