Sunan an-Nasa'i #5429
The Book of the Etiquette of Judges
The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.
أَخْبَرَنَا إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، قَالَ أَنْبَأَنَا وَكِيعٌ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا هِشَامُ بْنُ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ جَاءَتْ هِنْدٌ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ وَلاَ يُنْفِقُ عَلَىَّ وَوَلَدِي مَا يَكْفِينِي أَفَآخُذُ مِنْ مَالِهِ وَلاَ يَشْعُرُ قَالَ
" خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَوَلَدَكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ " .
"Hind came to the Messenger of Allah and said : 'O Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan is a stingy man who does not spend enough on my child and I. Can I take from his wealth without him realizing?' He said: 'Take what is sufficient for you and your child on a reasonable basis.'"
Narrated by It was narrated that 'Aishah said:
Context
In this narration, 'Aishah recounts an incident where Hind approached the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, expressing her concern about her husband Abu Sufyan's stinginess. She sought permission to take from his wealth for her and their child's needs. The Prophet ﷺ advised her to take what is sufficient in a reasonable manner, emphasizing the importance of fulfilling family needs.
Modern Application
This principle can be applied in modern family dynamics, where financial responsibilities often lead to conflicts. It encourages open communication about financial matters and finding fair solutions that ensure the well-being of all family members.
Topics
This hadith is tagged with Ethical Conduct and Spousal Rights because it illustrates the ethical considerations in financial dealings within a marriage and the rights of spouses to support each other.
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This hadith is #5429 from Sunan an-Nasa'i, in the Book of The Book of the Etiquette of Judges. It is graded Sahih and narrated by It was narrated that 'Aishah said:.