Sunan Ibn Majah #1630

The Chapters on Marriage
Sahih

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا عَمْرُو بْنُ رَافِعٍ، حَدَّثَنَا هُشَيْمٌ، عَنْ أَبِي بَلْجٍ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ حَاطِبٍ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ ‏ "‏ فَصْلُ مَا بَيْنَ الْحَلاَلِ وَالْحَرَامِ الدُّفُّ وَالصَّوْتُ فِي النِّكَاحِ ‏"‏ ‏.‏
“What differentiates between the lawful and the unlawful is (beating) the Daff and raising the voices (in song) at the time of marriage.”
Narrated by It was narrated from Muhammad bin Hatib that the Messenger of Allah said:

Context

In this hadith, the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) addresses the customs surrounding marriage celebrations. He states that the use of the Daff (a type of drum) and singing distinguishes lawful marriage festivities from unlawful ones. This highlights the importance of joy and celebration in the context of marriage while adhering to Islamic guidelines.

Modern Application

When planning a wedding today, incorporating joyful elements like music and dance can enhance the celebration, provided they align with Islamic principles. This encourages a festive atmosphere that brings families together while respecting the boundaries set by our faith.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Marriage and Prophetic Conduct because it reflects the Prophet's guidance on lawful celebrations in marriage.

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This hadith is #1630 from Sunan Ibn Majah, in the Book of The Chapters on Marriage. It is graded Sahih and narrated by It was narrated from Muhammad bin Hatib that the Messenger of Allah said:.

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