#1649

Sunan Ibn Majah

Sunan Ibn Majah #1649

The Chapters on Marriage

Sahih

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبَادَةَ الْوَاسِطِيُّ، حَدَّثَنَا يَزِيدُ بْنُ هَارُونَ، حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْمَلِكِ بْنُ حُسَيْنٍ أَبُو مَالِكٍ النَّخَعِيُّ، عَنْ مَنْصُورٍ، عَنْ أَبِي حَازِمٍ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ ‏ "‏ الْوَلِيمَةُ أَوَّلَ يَوْمٍ حَقٌّ وَالثَّانِي مَعْرُوفٌ وَالثَّالِثُ رِيَاءٌ وَسُمْعَةٌ ‏"‏ ‏.‏

that the Messenger of Allah said: 'The wedding feast on the first day is an obligation, on the second day is a custom and on the third day is showing off.”

Narrated by It was narrated from Abu Hurairah:

Context

In this narration, Abu Hurairah conveys the Prophet Muhammad's (ﷺ) guidance on the significance of the wedding feast. The Prophet categorized the first day as an obligation, the second as customary, and the third as potentially showing off. This highlights the importance of intention and humility in social gatherings.

Modern Application

In modern weddings, understanding the purpose of the walimah can help couples focus on the essence of celebration rather than extravagance. It encourages a balance between fulfilling obligations and maintaining humility.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Marriage and Hospitality because it addresses the significance of hosting a wedding feast and the intentions behind it.

Marriage Hospitality

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That they may witness benefits for themselves and mention the name of Allah on known days over what He has provided for them of [sacrificial] animals. So eat of them and feed the miserable and poor.

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Al-Mujaadila (The Pleading Woman)

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And he who does not find [a slave] - then a fast for two months consecutively before they touch one another; and he who is unable - then the feeding of sixty poor persons. That is for you to believe [completely] in Allah and His Messenger; and those are the limits [set by] Allah. And for the disbelievers is a painful punishment.

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That you [people] may believe in Allah and His Messenger and honor him and respect the Prophet and exalt Allah morning and afternoon.

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So eat and drink and be contented. And if you see from among humanity anyone, say, 'Indeed, I have vowed to the Most Merciful abstention, so I will not speak today to [any] man.' "

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This hadith is #1649 from Sunan Ibn Majah, in the Book of The Chapters on Marriage. It is graded Sahih and narrated by It was narrated from Abu Hurairah:.

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