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Sunan Ibn Majah #3401

Etiquette
Hasan

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو أُسَامَةَ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ قَدِمَ نَاسٌ مِنَ الأَعْرَابِ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ فَقَالُوا أَتُقَبِّلُونَ صِبْيَانَكُمْ قَالُوا نَعَمْ ‏.‏ فَقَالُوا لَكِنَّا وَاللَّهِ مَا نُقَبِّلُ ‏.‏ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ ‏ "‏ وَأَمْلِكُ أَنْ كَانَ اللَّهُ قَدْ نَزَعَ مِنْكُمُ الرَّحْمَةَ ‏"‏ ‏.‏
"Some Bedouin people came to the Prophet(ﷺ) and said: 'Do you kiss your children?' He said: 'Yes'. He said: 'But we, by Allah, never kiss (our children)'. The Prophet(ﷺ) said: 'What can I do if Allah has taken away mercy from you?'"
Narrated by It was narrated that Aisha, said:

Context

In this hadith narrated by Aisha, the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) responds to a group of Bedouins who do not kiss their children. His reply highlights the importance of showing affection and mercy, suggesting that a lack of such feelings may indicate a loss of compassion. This interaction emphasizes the value of nurturing relationships within families.

Modern Application

Today, this principle can be reflected in parenting practices that prioritize affection and emotional connection. Parents are encouraged to express love and care for their children, fostering a nurturing environment.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Community and Prophetic Teachings because it illustrates the Prophet's teachings on compassion and the importance of familial bonds.

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About Sunan Ibn Majah

This hadith is #3401 from Sunan Ibn Majah, in the Book of Etiquette. It is graded Hasan and narrated by It was narrated that Aisha, said:.

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