Sunan Ibn Majah #3452
Etiquette
The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.
حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ، حَدَّثَنَا وَكِيعٌ، عَنْ أَبِي يَحْيَى الطَّوِيلِ، - رَجُلٌ مِنْ أَهْلِ الْكُوفَةِ - عَنْ زَيْدٍ الْعَمِّيِّ، عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ، قَالَ كَانَ النَّبِيُّ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ إِذَا لَقِيَ الرَّجُلَ فَكَلَّمَهُ لَمْ يَصْرِفْ وَجْهَهُ عَنْهُ حَتَّى يَكُونَ هُوَ الَّذِي يَنْصَرِفُ وَإِذَا صَافَحَهُ لَمْ يَنْزِعْ يَدَهُ مِنْ يَدِهِ حَتَّى يَكُونَ هُوَ الَّذِي يَنْزِعُهَا وَلَمْ يُرَ مُتَقَدِّمًا بِرُكْبَتَيْهِ جَلِيسًا لَهُ قَطُّ .
"Whenever the Prophet(ﷺ) met a man, he would speak to him, and would not tun away until he (the other man) was the one who turned away. And if he shook hands with him, he would not withdraw his hand until he (the other man) withdrew his hand. And he was never seen sitting with his knees ahead of the knees of the one who was sitting next to him."
Narrated by It was narrated that Anas bin Malik said:
Context
Anas bin Malik narrates that the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) demonstrated exceptional respect and attentiveness in his interactions with others. He would not turn away from someone until they did, nor would he withdraw his hand first during a handshake. This behavior exemplifies the values of respect and humility in interpersonal communication.
Modern Application
This principle can be applied in our daily interactions by being fully present and engaged with others. It encourages us to practice active listening and to show respect in our communications, fostering stronger relationships.
Topics
This hadith is tagged with Respectful Communication and Prophetic Etiquette because it illustrates the importance of showing respect and attentiveness in interactions with others.
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About Sunan Ibn Majah
This hadith is #3452 from Sunan Ibn Majah, in the Book of Etiquette. It is graded Sahih and narrated by It was narrated that Anas bin Malik said:.