Sunan Ibn Majah #3477

Etiquette
Da'if

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرٍ، حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ إِدْرِيسَ، عَنْ دَاوُدَ، عَنِ الشَّعْبِيِّ، عَنْ أَبِي جَبِيرَةَ بْنِ الضَّحَّاكِ، قَالَ فِينَا نَزَلَتْ مَعْشَرَ الأَنْصَارِ ‏{وَلاَ تَنَابَزُوا بِالأَلْقَابِ‏)‏ قَدِمَ عَلَيْنَا النَّبِيُّ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ وَالرَّجُلُ مِنَّا لَهُ الاِسْمَانِ وَالثَّلاَثَةُ فَكَانَ النَّبِيُّ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ رُبَّمَا دَعَاهُمْ بِبَعْضِ تِلْكَ الأَسْمَاءِ فَيُقَالُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّهُ يَغْضَبُ مِنْ هَذَا ‏.‏ فَنَزَلَتْ ‏{وَلاَ تَنَابَزُوا بِالأَلْقَابِ}‏ ‏.‏
"(Allah's saying) "Nor insult one another by nicknames(Surah Al Hujarat 49:11)" was revealed concerning us, the Ansar. When the Prophet(ﷺ) came to us, a man among us would have two or three names, and the Prophet(ﷺ) might call him by one of those names, only to be told: "O Messenger of Allah(ﷺ), he does not like that name." Then:"Nor insult one another by nicknames." was revealed."
Narrated by It was narrated that Abu Jabirah bin Dahhak said:

Context

This hadith reveals that the verse prohibiting the use of derogatory nicknames was revealed in response to the Ansar's interactions with the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ). Some companions had multiple names, and the Prophet (ﷺ) sometimes used names that were not favored, leading to discomfort. The revelation served to promote respect and kindness in social interactions.

Modern Application

In today's society, this teaching encourages us to be mindful of how we address others. Using respectful and preferred names fosters a positive atmosphere and strengthens relationships, whether in personal interactions or professional settings.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Social Conduct and Respectful Communication because it addresses the importance of treating others with respect and avoiding derogatory terms that may offend.

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And to Allah belong the best names, so invoke Him by them. And leave [the company of] those who practice deviation concerning His names. They will be recompensed for what they have been doing.
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This hadith is #3477 from Sunan Ibn Majah, in the Book of Etiquette. It is graded Da'if and narrated by It was narrated that Abu Jabirah bin Dahhak said:.

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