Sunan Ibn Majah #3553

Etiquette
Da'if

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ عَيَّاشٍ، عَنْ أَبِي إِسْحَاقَ، عَنْ أَبِي الْمُغِيرَةِ، عَنْ حُذَيْفَةَ، قَالَ كَانَ فِي لِسَانِي ذَرَبٌ عَلَى أَهْلِي وَكَانَ لاَ يَعْدُوهُمْ إِلَى غَيْرِهِمْ فَذَكَرْتُ ذَلِكَ لِلنَّبِيِّ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ فَقَالَ ‏ "‏ أَيْنَ أَنْتَ مِنَ الاِسْتِغْفَارِ تَسْتَغْفِرُ اللَّهَ فِي الْيَوْمِ سَبْعِينَ مَرَّةً ‏"‏ ‏.‏
"I was harsh in the way I spoke to my family, but not to others. I mentioned that to the Prophet (saas) and he said: 'Why don't you ask for forgiveness? Ask Allah to forgive you, seventy times each day.'"
Narrated by It was narrated that Hudhaifah said:

Context

Hudhaifah narrates a personal struggle with harshness in communication towards his family. Upon sharing this with the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ), he is advised to seek forgiveness frequently. This hadith underscores the importance of self-awareness and the need for continuous repentance, especially in personal relationships. It reflects the human tendency to err and the significance of seeking Allah's mercy.

Modern Application

In today's context, this hadith encourages individuals to reflect on their interactions with family and loved ones. By committing to regular acts of seeking forgiveness, people can foster healthier relationships and promote a culture of understanding and compassion within their homes.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Good Deeds because it emphasizes the importance of seeking forgiveness and improving one's behavior towards others.

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This hadith is #3553 from Sunan Ibn Majah, in the Book of Etiquette. It is graded Da'if and narrated by It was narrated that Hudhaifah said:.

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