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Sahih al-Bukhari #5041

Wedlock, Marriage (Nikaah)
Sahih

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ يُوسُفَ، أَخْبَرَنَا مَالِكٌ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ الْقَاسِمِ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ عَاتَبَنِي أَبُو بَكْرٍ وَجَعَلَ يَطْعُنُنِي بِيَدِهِ فِي خَاصِرَتِي فَلاَ يَمْنَعُنِي مِنَ التَّحَرُّكِ إِلاَّ مَكَانُ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم وَرَأْسُهُ عَلَى فَخِذِي‏.‏
Abu Bakr admonished me and poked me with his hands in the flank, and nothing stopped me from moving at that time except the position of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) whose head was on my thigh.
Narrated by Narrated `Aisha:

Context

In this hadith, Aisha narrates a moment with Abu Bakr, who admonished her while the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) was resting his head on her thigh. This situation highlights the affectionate and respectful dynamics within the family of the Prophet (ﷺ), where even in moments of admonishment, love and care were present. The takeaway is the importance of maintaining respect and affection in communication, especially within family settings.

Modern Application

In today's relationships, especially in marriage, it's essential to communicate with love and respect, even when addressing issues. This hadith serves as a reminder to approach our loved ones with kindness, ensuring that our admonishments do not undermine the affection we share.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Prophetic Conduct and Respectful Communication because it illustrates the gentle manner in which the Prophet (ﷺ) interacted with his family, emphasizing the importance of maintaining respect even during admonishment.

Prophetic ConductRespectful Communication

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This hadith is #5041 from Sahih al-Bukhari, in the Book of Wedlock, Marriage (Nikaah). It is graded Sahih and narrated by Narrated `Aisha:.

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