Sahih al-Bukhari #5910
Good Manners and Form (Al-Adab)
The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.
حَدَّثَنَا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ حَرْبٍ، حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادٌ، هُوَ ابْنُ زَيْدٍ ـ عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ سَعِيدٍ، عَنْ بُشَيْرِ بْنِ يَسَارٍ، مَوْلَى الأَنْصَارِ عَنْ رَافِعِ بْنِ خَدِيجٍ، وَسَهْلَ بْنَ أَبِي حَثْمَةَ، أَنَّهُمَا حَدَّثَاهُ أَنَّ عَبْدَ اللَّهِ بْنَ سَهْلٍ وَمُحَيِّصَةَ بْنَ مَسْعُودٍ أَتَيَا خَيْبَرَ فَتَفَرَّقَا فِي النَّخْلِ، فَقُتِلَ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ سَهْلٍ، فَجَاءَ عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ سَهْلٍ وَحُوَيِّصَةُ وَمُحَيِّصَةُ ابْنَا مَسْعُودٍ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَتَكَلَّمُوا فِي أَمْرِ صَاحِبِهِمْ فَبَدَأَ عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ، وَكَانَ أَصْغَرَ الْقَوْمِ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم " كَبِّرِ الْكُبْرَ ". ـ قَالَ يَحْيَى لِيَلِيَ الْكَلاَمَ الأَكْبَرُ ـ فَتَكَلَّمُوا فِي أَمْرِ صَاحِبِهِمْ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم " أَتَسْتَحِقُّونَ قَتِيلَكُمْ ـ أَوْ قَالَ صَاحِبَكُمْ ـ بِأَيْمَانِ خَمْسِينَ مِنْكُمْ ". قَالُوا يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَمْرٌ لَمْ نَرَهُ. قَالَ " فَتُبْرِئُكُمْ يَهُودُ فِي أَيْمَانِ خَمْسِينَ مِنْهُمْ ". قَالُوا يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ قَوْمٌ كُفَّارٌ. فَوَدَاهُمْ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم مِنْ قِبَلِهِ. قَالَ سَهْلٌ فَأَدْرَكْتُ نَاقَةً مِنْ تِلْكَ الإِبِلِ، فَدَخَلَتْ مِرْبَدًا لَهُمْ فَرَكَضَتْنِي بِرِجْلِهَا.
قَالَ اللَّيْثُ حَدَّثَنِي يَحْيَى، عَنْ بُشَيْرٍ، عَنْ سَهْلٍ، قَالَ يَحْيَى حَسِبْتُ أَنَّهُ قَالَ مَعَ رَافِعِ بْنِ خَدِيجٍ، وَقَالَ ابْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى عَنْ بُشَيْرٍ عَنْ سَهْلٍ وَحْدَهُ.
`Abdullah bin Sahl and Muhaiyisa bin Mas`ud went to Khaibar and they dispersed in the gardens of
the date-palm trees. `Abdullah bin Sahl was murdered. Then `Abdur-Rahman bin Sahl, Huwaiyisa and
Muhaiyisa, the two sons of Mas`ud, came to the Prophet (ﷺ) and spoke about the case of their (murdered)
friend. `Abdur-Rahman who was the youngest of them all, started talking. The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Let the
older (among you) speak first." So they spoke about the case of their (murdered) friend. The Prophet (ﷺ)
said, "Will fifty of you take an oath whereby you will have the right to receive the blood money of
your murdered man," (or said, "..your companion"). They said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! The murder was a
thing we did not witness." The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Then the Jews will release you from the oath, if fifty of
them (the Jews) should take an oath to contradict your claim." They said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! They
are disbelievers (and they will take a false oath)." Then Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) himself paid the blood money
to them.
Narrated by Narrated Rafi` bin Khadij and Sahl bin Abu Hathma:
Context
In this hadith, Anas ibn Malik shares his experience of serving the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) for ten years without ever receiving a harsh word from him. This highlights the Prophet's exemplary conduct and respectful communication, setting a standard for interpersonal relationships.
Modern Application
In today's workplace and personal relationships, this hadith serves as a reminder of the importance of kindness and patience in communication. It encourages individuals to foster a respectful and supportive environment.
Topics
This hadith is tagged with Prophetic Conduct and Respectful Communication because it exemplifies the ideal behavior and communication style that should be emulated.
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And do not kill the soul which Allah has forbidden, except by right. And whoever is killed unjustly - We have given his heir authority, but let him not exceed limits in [the matter of] taking life. Indeed, he has been supported [by the law].
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About Sahih al-Bukhari
This hadith is #5910 from Sahih al-Bukhari, in the Book of Good Manners and Form (Al-Adab). It is graded Sahih and narrated by Narrated Rafi` bin Khadij and Sahl bin Abu Hathma:.