Sahih al-Bukhari #6156
Invocations
The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.
حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ، حَدَّثَنَا هِشَامٌ، أَخْبَرَنَا مَعْمَرٌ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ـ رضى الله عنها ـ قَالَتْ كَانَ الْيَهُودُ يُسَلِّمُونَ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَقُولُونَ السَّامُ عَلَيْكَ. فَفَطِنَتْ عَائِشَةُ إِلَى قَوْلِهِمْ فَقَالَتْ عَلَيْكُمُ السَّامُ وَاللَّعْنَةُ. فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم " مَهْلاً يَا عَائِشَةُ، إِنَّ اللَّهَ يُحِبُّ الرِّفْقَ فِي الأَمْرِ كُلِّهِ ". فَقَالَتْ يَا نَبِيَّ اللَّهِ أَوَلَمْ تَسْمَعْ مَا يَقُولُونَ قَالَ " أَوَلَمْ تَسْمَعِي أَنِّي أَرُدُّ ذَلِكَ عَلَيْهِمْ فَأَقُولُ وَعَلَيْكُمْ ".
The Jews used to greet the Prophet (ﷺ) by saying, "As-Samu 'Alaika (i.e., death be upon you), so I
understood what they said, and I said to them, "As-Samu 'alaikum wal-la'na (i.e. Death and Allah's
Curse be upon you)." The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Be gentle and calm, O `Aisha, as Allah likes gentleness in all
affairs." I said, "O Allah's Prophet! Didn't you hear what they said?" He said, "Didn't you hear me
answering them back by saying, 'Alaikum (i.e., the same be upon you)?"
Narrated by Narrated `Aisha:
Context
This narration recounts an incident where Aisha observed the Jews greeting the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) with a phrase implying death. In response, she reacted harshly, but the Prophet (ﷺ) advised her to respond with gentleness, highlighting the importance of kindness in communication. This incident illustrates the Prophet's commitment to maintaining a peaceful demeanor even in the face of provocation.
Modern Application
In today's world, this hadith reminds us of the value of respectful communication, especially in challenging situations. Practicing gentleness can help de-escalate conflicts and foster understanding in our interactions.
Topics
This hadith is tagged with Respectful Communication and Prophetic Etiquette because it emphasizes the importance of responding to negativity with kindness and gentleness.
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About Sahih al-Bukhari
This hadith is #6156 from Sahih al-Bukhari, in the Book of Invocations. It is graded Sahih and narrated by Narrated `Aisha:.