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Sunan Abu Dawud #4193

Combing the Hair (Kitab Al-Tarajjul)
Sahih

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا عُقْبَةُ بْنُ مُكْرَمٍ، وَابْنُ الْمُثَنَّى، قَالاَ حَدَّثَنَا وَهْبُ بْنُ جَرِيرٍ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبِي قَالَ، سَمِعْتُ مُحَمَّدَ بْنَ أَبِي يَعْقُوبَ، يُحَدِّثُ عَنِ الْحَسَنِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ جَعْفَرٍ، أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم أَمْهَلَ آلَ جَعْفَرٍ ثَلاَثًا أَنْ يَأْتِيَهُمْ ثُمَّ أَتَاهُمْ فَقَالَ ‏"‏ لاَ تَبْكُوا عَلَى أَخِي بَعْدَ الْيَوْمِ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ ثُمَّ قَالَ ‏"‏ ادْعُوا لِي بَنِي أَخِي ‏"‏ ‏.‏ فَجِيءَ بِنَا كَأَنَّا أَفْرُخٌ فَقَالَ ‏"‏ ادْعُوا لِي الْحَلاَّقَ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ فَأَمَرَهُ فَحَلَقَ رُءُوسَنَا ‏.‏
The Prophet (ﷺ) gave the children of Ja'far three day' time to visit them. He then came to visit them, and said: Do not weep over my brother after this day. He said: Call to me the children of my brother. We were brought to him as if we were chicken. He said: Call a barber to me. He then ordered and our heads were shaved.
Narrated by Narrated Abdullah ibn Ja'far:

Context

This hadith recounts a poignant moment when the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) visited the family of Ja'far after his death. He comforted them by asking them not to weep for Ja'far anymore. He then called for his children and had their heads shaved, which was a sign of mourning and a way to honor their father. This act illustrates the Prophet's compassion and his approach to dealing with grief within families.

Modern Application

In parenting today, this hadith emphasizes the importance of guiding children through loss and helping them cope with grief. It encourages parents to create supportive environments where children can express their feelings while also finding ways to honor loved ones who have passed.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Family and Treatment of the Dead because it illustrates the Prophet's interaction with Ja'far's family and his guidance on how to cope with loss.

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About Sunan Abu Dawud

This hadith is #4193 from Sunan Abu Dawud, in the Book of Combing the Hair (Kitab Al-Tarajjul). It is graded Sahih and narrated by Narrated Abdullah ibn Ja'far:.

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