Sunan Abu Dawud #4896

General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab)
Hasan Sahih

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ مَسْلَمَةَ، حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْعَزِيزِ، - يَعْنِي ابْنَ مُحَمَّدٍ - عَنِ الْعَلاَءِ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ ‏ "‏ الْمُسْتَبَّانِ مَا قَالاَ فَعَلَى الْبَادِي مِنْهُمَا مَا لَمْ يَعْتَدِ الْمَظْلُومُ ‏"‏ ‏.‏
when two men abuse one another, what they say is laid to the charge of the one who began it, so long as the one who is wronged does not go over the score.
Narrated by Abu Hurairah reported the Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) as saying:

Context

In this hadith, the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) addresses the issue of verbal disputes between two individuals. He teaches that the one who initiates the insult bears the greater responsibility, as long as the wronged party does not exceed the bounds of propriety in their response. This highlights the ethical implications of speech and accountability.

Modern Application

In everyday interactions, this principle encourages individuals to be mindful of their words and actions. It serves as a reminder to avoid provoking others and to take responsibility for our own behavior, fostering healthier communication and conflict resolution.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Ethics of Speech and Moral Responsibility because it underscores the importance of accountability in verbal exchanges and the ethical implications of initiating conflict.

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This hadith is #4896 from Sunan Abu Dawud, in the Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab). It is graded Hasan Sahih and narrated by Abu Hurairah reported the Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) as saying:.

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