Sunan Abu Dawud #5001

General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab)
Da'if in chain

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ مَعِينٍ، حَدَّثَنَا حَجَّاجُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ، حَدَّثَنَا يُونُسُ بْنُ أَبِي إِسْحَاقَ، عَنْ أَبِي إِسْحَاقَ، عَنِ الْعَيْزَارِ بْنِ حُرَيْثٍ، عَنِ النُّعْمَانِ بْنِ بَشِيرٍ، قَالَ اسْتَأْذَنَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ رَحْمَةُ اللَّهِ عَلَيْهِ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَسَمِعَ صَوْتَ عَائِشَةَ عَالِيًا فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ تَنَاوَلَهَا لِيَلْطِمَهَا وَقَالَ لاَ أَرَاكِ تَرْفَعِينَ صَوْتَكِ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَجَعَلَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَحْجُزُهُ وَخَرَجَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ مُغْضَبًا فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم حِينَ خَرَجَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ ‏"‏ كَيْفَ رَأَيْتِنِي أَنْقَذْتُكِ مِنَ الرَّجُلِ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَ فَمَكَثَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ أَيَّامًا ثُمَّ اسْتَأْذَنَ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَوَجَدَهُمَا قَدِ اصْطَلَحَا فَقَالَ لَهُمَا أَدْخِلاَنِي فِي سِلْمِكُمَا كَمَا أَدْخَلْتُمَانِي فِي حَرْبِكُمَا ‏.‏ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏"‏ قَدْ فَعَلْنَا قَدْ فَعَلْنَا ‏"‏ ‏.‏
When AbuBakr asked the permission of the Prophet (ﷺ) to come in, he heard Aisha speaking in a loud voice. So when he entered, he caught hold of her in order to slap her, and said: Do I see you raising your voice to the Messenger of Allah? The Prophet (ﷺ) began to prevent him and AbuBakr went out angry. The Prophet (ﷺ) said when AbuBakr went out: You see I rescued you from the man. AbuBakr waited for some days, then asked permission of the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) to enter, and found that they had made peace with each other. He said to them: Bring me into your peace as you brought me into your war. The Prophet (ﷺ) said: We have done so: we have done so.
Narrated by Narrated An-Nu'man ibn Bashir:

Context

In this hadith, Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) enters the presence of the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) and hears Aisha speaking loudly. Upset by this, he attempts to reprimand her, but the Prophet (ﷺ) intervenes to prevent any conflict. Later, after Abu Bakr has calmed down, he seeks to reconcile with both the Prophet (ﷺ) and Aisha, highlighting the importance of harmony in relationships. This situation illustrates the dynamics of communication and conflict resolution within the early Muslim community.

Modern Application

In today's world, this hadith emphasizes the importance of respectful communication in relationships. It serves as a reminder to approach disagreements with patience and understanding, fostering an environment where conflicts can be resolved amicably rather than escalating into anger.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Prophetic Conduct and Respectful Communication because it showcases the Prophet's (ﷺ) role in mediating a conflict and promoting respectful dialogue between individuals.

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This hadith is #5001 from Sunan Abu Dawud, in the Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab). It is graded Da'if in chain and narrated by Narrated An-Nu'man ibn Bashir:.

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