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Sunan an-Nasa'i #3432

The Book of Divorce
Sahih

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

أَخْبَرَنِي مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الأَعْلَى، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدٌ، - وَهُوَ ابْنُ ثَوْرٍ - عَنْ مَعْمَرٍ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ كَعْبِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، قَالَ فِي حَدِيثِهِ إِذَا رَسُولٌ مِنَ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَدْ أَتَانِي فَقَالَ اعْتَزِلِ امْرَأَتَكَ ‏.‏ فَقُلْتُ أُطَلِّقُهَا قَالَ لاَ وَلَكِنْ لاَ تَقْرَبْهَا ‏.‏ وَلَمْ يَذْكُرْ فِيهِ الْحَقِي بِأَهْلِكِ ‏.‏
"The envoy of the Messenger of Allah came to me and said: 'Keep away from your wife.' I said: 'Should I divorce her?' He said: 'No, but do not approach her.'" And he (the narrator) did not mention (the words): "Go to your family."
Narrated by It was narrated from 'Abdur-Rahman bin Ka'b bin Malik that his father said:

Context

This hadith recounts an incident where an envoy of the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ advised a man to keep away from his wife without suggesting divorce. This guidance highlights the importance of maintaining marital boundaries during difficult times, emphasizing that separation does not always necessitate divorce. The takeaway is the significance of managing marital relations with care.

Modern Application

In today's context, this principle can be applied when couples face challenges in their relationships. It serves as a reminder that taking a step back can sometimes be more beneficial than making drastic decisions like divorce, allowing for reflection and resolution.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Spousal Rights because it underscores the importance of respecting marital boundaries and the rights of spouses during challenging times.

Spousal Rights

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This hadith is #3432 from Sunan an-Nasa'i, in the Book of The Book of Divorce. It is graded Sahih and narrated by It was narrated from 'Abdur-Rahman bin Ka'b bin Malik that his father said:.

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