Sunan an-Nasa'i #3693
The Book of Presents
The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.
أَخْبَرَنَا عُبَيْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ، عَنْ يَحْيَى، عَنْ فِطْرٍ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي مُسْلِمُ بْنُ صُبَيْحٍ، قَالَ سَمِعْتُ النُّعْمَانَ بْنَ بَشِيرٍ، يَقُولُ ذَهَبَ بِي أَبِي إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم يُشْهِدُهُ عَلَى شَىْءٍ أَعْطَانِيهِ فَقَالَ
" أَلَكَ وَلَدٌ غَيْرُهُ " . قَالَ نَعَمْ . وَصَفَّ بِيَدِهِ بِكَفِّهِ أَجْمَعَ كَذَا أَلاَ سَوَّيْتَ بَيْنَهُمْ .
"My father took me to the Prophet to ask him to bear witness to something that he had given to me. He said: 'Do you have any other children?' He said: 'Yes.' He gestured with his hand held horizontally like this, (saying): 'Why don't you treat them all equally?'"
Narrated by An-Nu'man bin Bashir said:
Context
In this narration, the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ emphasized the importance of treating all children equally when a father sought to have a gift witnessed for one of his sons. The Prophet's gesture illustrated the need for fairness in familial relationships, reinforcing the value of equity among siblings.
Modern Application
This principle of equality can guide parents today in their interactions with their children. Ensuring that each child feels valued and treated fairly can strengthen family bonds and promote a healthy environment.
Topics
This hadith is tagged with Ethical Conduct because it underscores the ethical obligation of fairness in treating children.
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And for all, We have made heirs to what is left by parents and relatives. And to those whom your oaths have bound [to you] - give them their share. Indeed Allah is ever, over all things, a Witness.
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About Sunan an-Nasa'i
This hadith is #3693 from Sunan an-Nasa'i, in the Book of The Book of Presents. It is graded Hasan and narrated by An-Nu'man bin Bashir said:.