Sunan Ibn Majah #1319

Chapters Regarding Funerals
Sahih

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ جَابِرٍ الْمُحَارِبِيُّ، وَمُحَمَّدُ بْنُ كَرَامَةَ، قَالاَ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو أُسَامَةَ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ يَزِيدَ بْنِ جَابِرٍ، عَنْ مَكْحُولٍ، وَالْقَاسِمِ، عَنْ أَبِي أُمَامَةَ، أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ لَعَنَ الْخَامِشَةَ وَجْهَهَا وَالشَّاقَّةَ جَيْبَهَا وَالدَّاعِيَةَ بِالْوَيْلِ وَالثُّبُورِ ‏.‏
It was narrated from Abu Umamah that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) cursed the woman who scratches her face and rends her garment and cries that she is doomed (i.e. because of the death of this person).

Context

This hadith narrates an instance where the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) condemned certain expressions of grief, specifically the act of scratching one's face and tearing one's garments in mourning. The Prophet's disapproval serves as a reminder to maintain dignity and composure in times of loss, emphasizing the importance of ethical conduct even in sorrow.

Modern Application

In contemporary life, this principle encourages individuals to express grief in a manner that is respectful and dignified. It serves as a reminder to seek healthy ways to cope with loss, rather than resorting to actions that may be seen as excessive or disrespectful.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Ethical Conduct and Moral Responsibility because it addresses the importance of maintaining dignity and composure in expressions of grief.

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This hadith is #1319 from Sunan Ibn Majah, in the Book of Chapters Regarding Funerals. It is graded Sahih.

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