Sunan Ibn Majah #1660

The Chapters on Marriage
Sahih

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو مَرْوَانَ، مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عُثْمَانَ الْعُثْمَانِيُّ حَدَّثَنَا إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ سَعْدٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ شِهَابٍ، حَدَّثَنِي عُبَيْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ، قَالَ سَأَلَ رَجُلٌ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ عَنِ الْعَزْلِ فَقَالَ ‏ "‏ أَوَتَفْعَلُونَ لاَ عَلَيْكُمْ أَنْ لاَ تَفْعَلُوا فَإِنَّهُ لَيْسَ مِنْ نَسَمَةٍ قَضَى اللَّهُ لَهَا أَنْ تَكُونَ إِلاَّ هِيَ كَائِنَةٌ ‏"‏ ‏.‏
“A man asked the Messenger of about coitus interruptus. He said: 'Do you do that? If you do not do so, it will not harm; for there is no soul that (SWT) has decreed will exist but it will come into being.' “
Narrated by It was narrated that Abu Sa'eed Al-Kudri said:

Context

In this hadith, a man inquires about coitus interruptus, and the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ reassures him that if a soul is destined to exist, it will come into being regardless of human actions. This reflects the belief in divine decree and the acceptance of God's will.

Modern Application

In contemporary discussions about family planning, this hadith encourages trust in divine wisdom regarding creation. It serves as a reminder to approach family planning with a sense of faith and reliance on God's plan.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Family and Spousal Rights because it addresses matters related to family planning and the divine will regarding offspring.

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This hadith is #1660 from Sunan Ibn Majah, in the Book of The Chapters on Marriage. It is graded Sahih and narrated by It was narrated that Abu Sa'eed Al-Kudri said:.

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