Sunan Ibn Majah #3512

Etiquette
Da'if

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا هِشَامُ بْنُ عَمَّارٍ، حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ بْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ دِينَارٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ، قَالَ نَهَى رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ أَنْ يَتَنَاجَى اثْنَانِ دُونَ الثَّالِثِ ‏.‏
"The Messenger of Allah(ﷺ) forbade two to converse (privately) to the exclusion of a third."
Narrated by It was narrated that Ibn 'Umar said:

Context

In this hadith, the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) forbids two individuals from conversing privately to the exclusion of a third person. This teaching emphasizes the importance of inclusivity and respect in communication, ensuring that no one feels left out or marginalized.

Modern Application

In contemporary settings, this principle encourages open communication and inclusivity in group discussions. It fosters a sense of belonging and respect among individuals, enhancing collaboration and understanding.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Respectful Communication and Prophetic Etiquette because it underscores the importance of inclusive communication and respectful interactions.

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This hadith is #3512 from Sunan Ibn Majah, in the Book of Etiquette. It is graded Da'if and narrated by It was narrated that Ibn 'Umar said:.

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