#3511

Sunan Ibn Majah

Sunan Ibn Majah #3511

Etiquette

Sahih

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ نُمَيْرٍ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو مُعَاوِيَةَ، وَوَكِيعٌ، عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ، عَنْ شَقِيقٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ ‏ "‏ إِذَا كُنْتُمْ ثَلاَثَةً فَلاَ يَتَنَاجَى اثْنَانِ دُونَ صَاحِبِهِمَا فَإِنَّ ذَلِكَ يُحْزِنُهُ ‏"‏ ‏.‏

"When you are three, two should not converse (privately) to the exclusion of their companion, because that makes him sad."

Narrated by It was narrated from Abdullah that the Messenger of Allah(ﷺ) said:

Context

The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) advised that when in a group of three, two individuals should not engage in private conversation to the exclusion of the third person. This teaching emphasizes the importance of inclusivity and consideration for others' feelings, fostering a sense of community and respect among friends and companions.

Modern Application

In social settings today, this principle encourages individuals to be mindful of their interactions, ensuring that everyone feels included and valued. Practicing this can strengthen relationships and create a more harmonious environment.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Community and Respectful Communication because it promotes inclusivity and consideration for others' feelings in social interactions.

Community Respectful Communication

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So they disputed over their affair among themselves and concealed their private conversation.

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O you who have believed, let those whom your right hands possess and those who have not [yet] reached puberty among you ask permission of you [before entering] at three times: before the dawn prayer and when you put aside your clothing [for rest] at noon and after the night prayer. [These are] three times of privacy for you. There is no blame upon you nor upon them beyond these [periods], for they continually circulate among you - some of you, among others. Thus does Allah make clear to you the verses; and Allah is Knowing and Wise.

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This hadith is #3511 from Sunan Ibn Majah, in the Book of Etiquette. It is graded Sahih and narrated by It was narrated from Abdullah that the Messenger of Allah(ﷺ) said:.

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