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Jami` at-Tirmidhi #2065

Chapters on Righteousness And Maintaining Good Relations With Relatives
Sahih

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو كُرَيْبٍ، حَدَّثَنَا سُوَيْدُ بْنُ عَمْرٍو الْكَلْبِيُّ، عَنْ حَمَّادِ بْنِ سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ أَيُّوبَ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ سِيرِينَ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، أُرَاهُ رَفَعَهُ قَالَ ‏ "‏ أَحْبِبْ حَبِيبَكَ هَوْنًا مَا عَسَى أَنْ يَكُونَ بَغِيضَكَ يَوْمًا مَا وَأَبْغِضْ بَغِيضَكَ هَوْنًا مَا عَسَى أَنْ يَكُونَ حَبِيبَكَ يَوْمًا مَا ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ غَرِيبٌ لاَ نَعْرِفُهُ بِهَذَا الإِسْنَادِ إِلاَّ مِنْ هَذَا الْوَجْهِ ‏.‏ وَقَدْ رُوِيَ هَذَا الْحَدِيثُ عَنْ أَيُّوبَ بِإِسْنَادٍ غَيْرِ هَذَا رَوَاهُ الْحَسَنُ بْنُ أَبِي جَعْفَرٍ وَهُوَ حَدِيثٌ ضَعِيفٌ أَيْضًا بِإِسْنَادٍ لَهُ عَنْ عَلِيٍّ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم وَالصَّحِيحُ عَنْ عَلِيٍّ مَوْقُوفٌ قَوْلُهُ ‏.‏
"Love your beloved moderately, perhaps he becomes hated to you someday. And hate whom you hate moderately, perhaps he becomes your beloved someday."
Narrated by Muhammad bin Sirin narrated from Abu Hurairah - and I think he (narrated it from the Prophet) who said:

Context

In this hadith, the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) advises moderation in love and hate. He emphasizes that feelings can change over time, and one should not become overly attached or detached from others. This teaching encourages a balanced approach to relationships, reminding us that those we love may not always remain dear to us, and those we dislike may become important in the future.

Modern Application

In today's world, this principle can help us navigate personal relationships more wisely. By practicing moderation in our feelings, we can avoid extreme reactions and maintain healthier interactions, whether in friendships, family ties, or professional relationships.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Community because it emphasizes the importance of maintaining balanced relationships within a community.

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About Jami` at-Tirmidhi

This hadith is #2065 from Jami` at-Tirmidhi, in the Book of Chapters on Righteousness And Maintaining Good Relations With Relatives. It is graded Sahih and narrated by Muhammad bin Sirin narrated from Abu Hurairah - and I think he (narrated it from the Prophet) who said:.

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