By Allah, Al-Hasan bin `Ali led large battalions like mountains against Muawiya. `Amr bin Al-As
said (to Muawiya), "I surely see battalions which will not turn back before killing their opponents."
Muawiya who was really the best of the two men said to him, "O `Amr! If these killed those and those
killed these, who would be left with me for the jobs of the public, who would be left with me for their
women, who would be left with me for their children?" Then Muawiya sent two Quraishi men from
the tribe of `Abd-i-Shams called `Abdur Rahman bin Sumura and `Abdullah bin 'Amir bin Kuraiz to
Al-Hasan saying to them, "Go to this man (i.e. Al-Hasan) and negotiate peace with him and talk and
appeal to him." So, they went to Al-Hasan and talked and appealed to him to accept peace. Al-Hasan
said, "We, the offspring of `Abdul Muttalib, have got wealth and people have indulged in killing and
corruption (and money only will appease them)." They said to Al-Hasan, "Muawiya offers you so and
so, and appeals to you and entreats you to accept peace." Al-Hasan said to them, "But who will be
responsible for what you have said?" They said, "We will be responsible for it." So, whatever Al-
Hasan asked they said, "We will be responsible for it for you." So, Al-Hasan concluded a peace treaty
with Muawiya. Al-Hasan (Al-Basri) said: I heard Abu Bakr saying, "I saw Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) on the
pulpit and Al-Hasan bin `Ali was by his side. The Prophet (ﷺ) was looking once at the people and once at
Al-Hasan bin `Ali saying, 'This son of mine is a Saiyid (i.e. a noble) and may Allah make peace
between two big groups of Muslims through him."
Narrated by Narrated Al-Hasan Al-Basri:
Context
In this hadith, Aisha narrates an incident where the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) intervened in a dispute between two individuals. He called out the one who was swearing not to do a favor, prompting him to reconsider and agree to help his opponent. This highlights the importance of kindness and resolving conflicts amicably.
Modern Application
This principle encourages us to engage in respectful communication and to resolve disputes with compassion. It serves as a reminder to act justly and kindly in our interactions with others.
Topics
This hadith is tagged with Ethics of Interaction and Respectful Communication because it emphasizes the importance of kindness and resolving conflicts through respectful dialogue.
Except for those who take refuge with a people between yourselves and whom is a treaty or those who come to you, their hearts strained at [the prospect of] fighting you or fighting their own people. And if Allah had willed, He could have given them power over you, and they would have fought you. So if they remove themselves from you and do not fight you and offer you peace, then Allah has not made for you a cause [for fighting] against them.
And if you fear dissension between the two, send an arbitrator from his people and an arbitrator from her people. If they both desire reconciliation, Allah will cause it between them. Indeed, Allah is ever Knowing and Acquainted [with all things].
And if two factions among the believers should fight, then make settlement between the two. But if one of them oppresses the other, then fight against the one that oppresses until it returns to the ordinance of Allah. And if it returns, then make settlement between them in justice and act justly. Indeed, Allah loves those who act justly.
Allah has already forgiven the Prophet and the Muhajireen and the Ansar who followed him in the hour of difficulty after the hearts of a party of them had almost inclined [to doubt], and then He forgave them. Indeed, He was to them Kind and Merciful.
Certainly was Allah pleased with the believers when they pledged allegiance to you, [O Muhammad], under the tree, and He knew what was in their hearts, so He sent down tranquillity upon them and rewarded them with an imminent conquest