Sunan Abu Dawud #2256

Divorce (Kitab Al-Talaq)
Sahih

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا مَخْلَدُ بْنُ خَالِدٍ الشَّعِيرِيُّ، حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ، عَنْ عَاصِمِ بْنِ كُلَيْبٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ، أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم أَمَرَ رَجُلاً حِينَ أَمَرَ الْمُتَلاَعِنَيْنِ أَنْ يَتَلاَعَنَا أَنْ يَضَعَ يَدَهُ عَلَى فِيهِ عِنْدَ الْخَامِسَةِ يَقُولُ إِنَّهَا مُوجِبَةٌ ‏.‏
When the Prophet (ﷺ) ordered a man and his wife to invoke curses on each other, he ordered a man to put his hand on his mouth when he came to the fifth utterance, saying that it would be the deciding one.
Narrated by Narrated Abdullah ibn Abbas:

Context

In this hadith, Abdullah ibn Abbas recounts an incident where the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) instructed a man to place his hand on his mouth during a specific moment in a cursing ritual between spouses. This guidance emphasizes the gravity of words and the importance of controlling one's speech, especially in heated situations.

Modern Application

Today, this principle can be applied in conflict resolution within relationships. By being mindful of our words and the impact they can have, individuals can foster healthier communication and avoid escalating conflicts.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Family because it addresses the dynamics of marital relationships and the importance of communication in resolving disputes.

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This hadith is #2256 from Sunan Abu Dawud, in the Book of Divorce (Kitab Al-Talaq). It is graded Sahih and narrated by Narrated Abdullah ibn Abbas:.

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