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Sunan Abu Dawud #4877

General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab)
Sahih

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا مُسَدَّدٌ، حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى، عَنْ سُفْيَانَ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي عَلِيُّ بْنُ الأَقْمَرِ، عَنْ أَبِي حُذَيْفَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ قُلْتُ لِلنَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم حَسْبُكَ مِنْ صَفِيَّةَ كَذَا وَكَذَا قَالَ غَيْرُ مُسَدَّدٍ تَعْنِي قَصِيرَةً ‏.‏ فَقَالَ ‏"‏ لَقَدْ قُلْتِ كَلِمَةً لَوْ مُزِجَتْ بِمَاءِ الْبَحْرِ لَمَزَجَتْهُ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَتْ وَحَكَيْتُ لَهُ إِنْسَانًا فَقَالَ ‏"‏ مَا أُحِبُّ أَنِّي حَكَيْتُ إِنْسَانًا وَأَنَّ لِي كَذَا وَكَذَا ‏"‏ ‏.‏
I said to the Prophet (ﷺ): It is enough for you in Safiyyah that she is such and such (the other version than Musaddad's has:) meaning that she was short-statured. He replied; You have said a word which would change the sea if it were mixed in it. She said: I imitated a man before him (out of disgrace). He said: I do not like that I imitate anyone even if I should get such and such.
Narrated by Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin:

Context

Aisha, the wife of the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ), shares a moment where she comments on another woman's stature. The Prophet responds by highlighting the severity of her words, suggesting that even seemingly harmless remarks can have significant consequences. This interaction illustrates the importance of respectful communication and the impact of our words on others.

Modern Application

In today's context, this hadith encourages mindfulness in our speech, reminding us to avoid derogatory comments about others. It promotes a culture of kindness and respect, urging individuals to think before they speak.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Respectful Communication because it emphasizes the need for careful speech and the potential harm that can arise from negative comments.

Respectful Communication

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This hadith is #4877 from Sunan Abu Dawud, in the Book of General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab). It is graded Sahih and narrated by Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin:.

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