Sunan Ibn Majah #1786

The Chapters on Divorce
Sahih

The Arabic includes the chain of narration (sanad) and the collector's commentary; the English translation shows the Prophet's words only.

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو مُعَاوِيَةَ، عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ، عَنْ مُسْلِمٍ، عَنْ مَسْرُوقٍ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ خَيَّرَنَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ فَاخْتَرْنَاهُ ‏.‏ فَلَمْ نَرَهُ شَيْئًا ‏.‏
"The Messenger of Allah gave us the choice, and we chose him, and he did not consider it as something (i.e., an effective divorce)."
Narrated by It was narrated that Aishah said:

Context

This hadith reflects the Prophet Muhammad's ﷺ approach to family dynamics, particularly in the context of choice and consent. Aisha narrates that the Prophet gave them a choice, which they accepted, indicating the importance of mutual agreement in family matters. This highlights the value of communication and understanding within familial relationships.

Modern Application

In modern family life, this hadith underscores the significance of open communication and the importance of considering each other's preferences and feelings. It encourages families to foster an environment where choices are respected and valued.

Topics

This hadith is tagged with Family because it emphasizes the importance of choice and mutual respect within family dynamics.

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This hadith is #1786 from Sunan Ibn Majah, in the Book of The Chapters on Divorce. It is graded Sahih and narrated by It was narrated that Aishah said:.

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